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“Nobody makes anybody feel anything. Understanding this is the first step to claiming something very precious – your own emotions. … Remember, it might be easier in the short run for me to dump my feelings on you when I feel bad; it sure is tempting to make how I feel all your fault. But when we blame others for feelings that truly belong to us, we disempower ourselves. If it’s your fault that I feel bad, I guess there’s nothing I can do about it, so I’m stuck. Only when I am willing to own my emotions do I...

20 October, 2015 /

1. Be Here Now. I know, I know. It’s easier said than done, but being present really is the key to almost everything, and certainly the key to everything blissful, joyful, ecstatic or pleasurable. Someone who is stuck constantly obsessing about the past or worrying about some future event will find it hard to experience Bliss, or even be able to relax at all! One essential aspect of Tantric lovemaking is about being present with your lover, letting go of any goal and really diving into the ecstasy that is possible in each moment. In Tantra, we use our senses to help us...

19 October, 2015 /

Orgasm for Men: One of my teachers, Advaitananda, talking about Tantric orgasm. Most men that I meet through my work don’t actually know that orgasm and ejaculation are two different things. Or if they are aware of the concept, they don’t believe it can happen for them. It’s just some strange Tantric fantasy that doesn’t correlate with reality… If you are in this situation, please, believe me, orgasm and ejaculation can be separated! I’ve seen it many, many, many times. It’s so beautiful to witness people have this moment of revelation. All men are capable of feeling the whole body as a sexual organ instead...

19 October, 2015 /

People come to see me for all sorts of reasons. Some come because they are curious to have this once-in-a-lifetime experience or others come regularly to experience the profound pleasure and incomparably deep relaxation. Others come for the soul nurturing and the intimacy, or simply to be touched lovingly all over. Seekers come for education, for growth, for healing, to overcome sexual issues or limitations, to recover from trauma or repression, or because they are spiritual people or sensitive people looking for such an experience. Maybe this is the first time they’ve heard of it, or felt safe enough to allow their bodies to come and...

16 October, 2015 /